Buzz·Posted on Apr 4, 201419 Things People Who "Aren't Black Enough" Understand"But you're not really black."by Doriean StevensonCommunity ContributorLinkFacebookPinterestTwitterMail First of all, there's really no such thing as not being black enough. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 1. You go in for a handshake and things get...awkward. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 2. Your friends ask you to join their bands because they assume you've got rhythm. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 3. You've been made fun of because you talk "white." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 4. When your friends quote Friday they always look to you for validation. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 5. Friends have told you that you're "not really black." Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 6. Lovers have been shocked to discover the actual size of your...equipment. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 7. Others call you out when you comment on the plight of inner-city youth, since you grew up in the suburbs. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 8. People are shocked to learn you don't know all the words to every 2Pac song. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 9. You're usually the first pick and sometimes the biggest disappointment at game time. 10. When you jump in the pool, your friends are more worried about your hair than you are. View this photo on Instagram 11. Your cousin says you sound "stuck up" when you use proper grammar. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 12. So you may have bought this book. 13. When you sing, people expect Aretha Franklin but get something more like Sara Bareilles. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 14. People who have spoken to you on the phone are always surprised when they meet you in person. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 15. Some find it strange how much you love country music. 16. When you go out, friends ask you to teach them the latest dance craze... but you may not have heard of it. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 17. Your uncle wonders why you use a shower sponge instead of a wash rag. View this photo on Instagram 18. You stay pretty chill when you get upset, which baffles those expecting an "angry black" response. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF 19. People try to get you to pick "a side." View this photo on Instagram Just keep doing you the best way you know how. Tap to play GIF Tap to play GIF