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20 Love Lessons From Destiny's Child Songs

Important romantic advice from Beyoncé, Kelly, and Michelle.

1. Mooching is NOT sexy.

2. Playing "hard to get" won't get you very far.

3. Mommas who profit dollas have the upper hand.

4. Don't talk the sexy talk if you can't walk the sexy walk.

5. Love is disorienting and debilitating.

6. Love makes us stubborn and irrational.

7. Friends provide clarity when we're blinded by love goggles.

8. Seeking a financially stable partner is NOT gold-digging. It's practical.

9. Sometimes, love just isn't enough.

10. Not all jealousy is paranoia.

11. If Beyoncé can get bent out of shape about lost love, so can you.

12. But after the mourning period, get your dumped ass off the couch and move on.

13. The best remedy for heartache is leaning on your friends.

14. Even when in a relationship, alone time is important.

15. Stalking is a serious turn-off.

16. Last-ditch gift-giving is not a viable apology.

17. When it comes to finding love, get serious. Time's a wastin'.

18. When someone does you wrong, don't get mad. Get even.

19. But afterward, keep your digital love record clean.

20. And last but certainly not least: You (yes, YOU) are a sexy beast.

May the love force be with you.